27 Jun 2007

Do not envy other people; live our own life




Posted by Tan Kin Lian Friday, June 22, 2007
http://tankinlian.blogspot.com/2007/06/how-can-singaporeans-be-happy.html


COMMENT POSTED IN MY BLOG:

In my 9 years here, I've rarely met anyone who's happy about their job.

Everyone has grouses ... and why?

Mostly due to Money.

Let's all admit it, isn't this society driven by monetary excellence?

What else? High expectations has been drilled since we are young.

High expectations of your maid, the guy at the front bank desk, your colleagues.

Everything is speed, accuracy, and excellence. Would anyone dare fail?

What's this all boils down to?

Higher stress ---> Grouses??

Is this only happening in Singapore? I don't think so.

Maybe it's more evident here? Possibly?

So therefore, your statement may have to evolve to 'how can Singaporeans be happy?

'Mr. Tan sir, please share some thoughts.


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REPLY:


I like to invite other readers to share their thoughts.


Here are some of my suggestions:


* live within our income


* save 15% for our future needs


* do not spend unnecessary (to keep up with other people)


* avoid borrowing on credit card


* do not envy other people; live our own life


* look for the things that are inexpensive or free in Singapore; they are plenty


* do not waste our time doing the unnecessary work


* talk to friends and colleagues


* have an inexpensive hobby


* spend time to be nice to other people


* think of others; not just ourself



I hope to get more views from other people.


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